For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

 Jeremiah 29:11

This week I will be post a Five part series about Love, knowing your value and worth and waiting for a gift from God in the type of relationship you deserve with a mate from God. Don’t accept a beat-up cutlas. How about you let God give you the best of the best he has made just for you.

Enjoy Part 3 of ‘Love a Foreign term’

So as we continued to talk, I couldn’t help but notice that he was telling me of all the things he was doing for this woman, how he was showing her that he was the right fit for her, showing her with love. It dawned on me that she had some issue that she hadn’t let go of in order to receive this out pour of love he was showering on her.

Because of her pasted failed relationship she was wearing her baggage like an armour looking like IRONMAN (or IRONWOMAN) to him on the outside but looking like a beat-up cutlass.

She had a trust issue, abandonment issues, and daddy issues. So I asked him from what I heard him said did you take time before you jumped into this relationship with this woman to let yourself be healed from your last relationship? I told him he was a jumper.

Meaning he went from one relationship to the next without allowing time to moan the last relationship he was in. Allow his mind, body, and soul to just output the other person and to figure out what your value is before jumping into the next thing you thing that looks good to you. Because you’re scared to be alone and really think things out.

I told him how you can place your trust in someone when you yourself haven’t dealt with your trust issue. Learning you place your trust in God can help you learn how to trust yourself and learn who is really for you.

Allowing God to love on you will show you who will be ready and willing to receive the love you are ready to pour out. Knowing your value, your worth and what you want in a mate comes from being alone with God. So you can think about what it is that you’re willing to expect. Write it down. Write what you want in a mate, give it to God.

Then pray for your mate that God will heal their minds, body, and soul. That you will know your ‘Rib’ when you see them. That there will not be a shadow without a doubt in your mind that they were made for you.

Pray for their health. Pray that they will know how to accept your love, because they know they deserve it. Pray that they will know how to love you back. Pray that whatever situation they are going through that God will bring them out victorious. Then see how God will work on your behalf.

To be continue to part 4. This is Part 3 of five