“Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant”

1 Corinthians 13:4

  Nowhere in the world do I consider me a love doctor. But the experience that I have endured while hurting down love I feel gives me an advanced to speak on love. From failed relationship with friendships and love relationships. My family relationships, work relationships, my newest relationship with my husband. To building my relationship with God.

I feel a good healthy relationship of any kind is based on trust, commutation and knowing each other as best as you can taking an interest in each other’s.  Rather if it is for work or personal. In order for a good healthy relationship to stand the test of time, the foundation needs to be established. Where both parties to the relationship, feels that their needs are being satisfied to move forward with the continued building of the relationship.

 This weekend as I was celebrating a couple of my closest family and friends graduations from college. I got the chance to reconnect and catch up with some of them on life things. As we were finishing up taking pictures we started to talk about one of my favorite subjects. ‘Relationships.’

I really don’t know why I love, love. But I do. I think after watching my parents and several other couples in my church as I was growing up that I really have a positive outlook on love despite my own fail attempts in love that God brought me out of to experience real love with my husband.

I think I love, love because God loves me and I know I love him. I really can’t explain the joy I feel when I think about the love I have for him. Thinking about it now as I am writing this makes me happy.

So I like I said earlier we got on the topic of relationships and I was asked to speak to a family member about this very subject. So as he began to pour out his heart on what was going on with him in his current situation, I started asking him questions so I could get the bigger picture of this relationship.

He told me that he was ready to get married. That this woman made him want to be a better man for her. That he was ready to take on the responsible of supporting her and her children because no one ever made him want to come up higher.

He felt the challenge to be the man he thought she needed and wanted and he was ready to answer the call by wifing her down. I was impressed with the improvement in his speech. So I told him that was great. So if Monday came were you ready to go to the courthouse that morning get the papers and get married that day to her? There was a pause, a few ums.

To be continue to part 2. This is Part 1 of five

Xxo,

Ind!go Metellus