Take action
I challenge you single women to look in the mirror. If your desire is to get married. Ask yourself “Why am I still single.”
Be honest with yourself. Stop passing the blame to others. You’re not single because you have children. I’ve seen women who have serval children still get married. You’re not single because of your damaged goods. You’re not single because of the color of your skin. You’re not single due to weight. You’re not single because of your looks.
And most definitely not alone because there aren’t any good men out there or because of your waiting on God. You’re single because you choose to make these items excuses and reason to suffer in your single misery. You Fail to ultimately tried God. To be open to the process.
You want to get married then you have to become pro-active. I don’t mean dating and putting yourself out there like the world thinks you should. You have to change your mindset and do things differently than you have done before. You have to TRUST GOD AND MOVE OUT OF YOUR WAY.
You’re blessed to have God working on your behalf because God created you and your mate. When you let God handle your marriage, desire the bonus is that your husband will love and cherish you as he created for you.
Pray
After you have identified the real reason behind your singleness. Get on your needs and pray for God’s guidance, that you will be able to be patience until he sends you your husband. Remind God’s of his word that he create you from the rib of your husband (Genesis 2:22) and that he will bring you to him as his helpmate. Remind God that his word says that your children and your husband will call you bless (Proverbs 31).
Pray that when God blesses your husband with you that he will know that God has allowed him to find you. That he found a good thang in you. That you both waited on the Lord, you will obtain God’s favor. Praise God every time you feel doubt or worry. Get excited and get ready for the move of God. Cease without praying and rejoice the God’s word will not return void to you.
Stay strong sista. God is pushing though for your desires. Know that God is real.
Continue to Part 1, 3, 4 Why am I still Single?
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