No one wants to feel they are the Layaway Plan in a relationship.

You want your partner to make you the number only. So Why Are Women Being Put on LayAway?. I feel in today’s society there are more labels to a person than ever before. From Pansexual to Gender Fluid we are apart of a community that wants everything now and has no problem with making someone who is really for them to wait while exploring their desires.

So why do we as women allow ourselves to be put on some Layaway? Why do we allow ourselves to be second best? There is nothing wrong with letting your man know “Hey I’m giving you my time.” This is an investment for me and if I’m not who you see yourself with then bounce.”

Beauty, stop playing these games. Do your part: Don’t become someone’s back up planning. You are someone’s ONLY option. Do you know how you can make sure you and your time are not wasted? Follow these tips:

1. By establishing your dating expectations
2. Making sure the next person you date aligns with the purpose of your life and you with theirs.
3. Know your time is a valuable investment
4. Layaway dating is no longer an option for you.

You can do this, your value is far more than rubies, these is coming from God. So if he knows your worth you should too.

Date with purpose Beauty!

I.M

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