I know you want to know can you find your husband online. The truth is you can. But you also have to be safe about it. I have both experiences with different dating style.
Online dating is just like online shopping. You can visit the site as much as you like. Read the stats not have to worry about people judging you for linger too long on the individual’s page. Before pulling the trigger of reaching out to them.
In person dating it can be just as risky. But you get to see a sample. You get the live version. You can be led by lust, or you can be cautious and take your time with an in-person meeting.
Due to a study in the U.S. one-third of marriages were started by an online meeting. Leading to happier couples reaching over 19,131 individuals who were married between 2005-2012 (Daily News). Then there is the possibility that online dating has taken away the social interacting with our peers as we go out into the world beyond our phones and computers. Can meeting your Husband online be better than meeting him offline?
Time for some Blogger’s Honest:
When I was dating I’m not going to lie I was bopping online. The internet was popping action. Netscape dialing up connecting to other people in the world was fantastic. Being socially awkward, coming off as aggressive to the boys I had crushes. Online was a gift for me. I found that I had ease going into chat rooms, with my imagine I could create a better vision of myself. The person I was talking to didn’t have to know that I was only in high-school or that I tower over most people.
Most of the time I wasn’t sure if I was talking to a girl or guy. I just knew that if the conversation got x-rated to fast, I could just bounce out the private chat room and find any soul that understood me via 0’s & 1’s.
Then one day I was introduced to Blackplanet.com. I could remember creating a page learning HTML to create floating words and music placing glamor on my page. Comparing with my BFF who we each were messaged by and watching each other reply to message in our inbox (This was the DM) exchanging numbers and having phone conversations were so easy back then until people wanted to meet offline.
So wrapping this up. I met my husband online and offline. How? He sent me an inbox while at the same time I was introduced to him by one of his frat brothers. Call it God’s plan. I was so over online dating and meeting douche bags that had a great online presence but x-rate motives when we meet in-person. I was ready to delete all online accounts.
Then I received a letter. Not a note but a letter apologizing for all the men that have hurt me in the past. At 1st I thought it was game. I must admit it was very smooth. At the end of the letter he gave me his number so for a few days, I didn’t call. Then I was hanging with my friends, and his frat brother was like he had somebody he wanted me to meet. There you have it another chance meeting. So do I think you can meet your husband online? Yes. How?
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