“When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” 1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was younger, and it was time to go out. My daddy would always warm the car up so that it would be warm for us girls and my mom when we got in it. Or if the vehicle was already hot and everyone was leaving out of the house at the same time he would open the door for my mom, us girls as we got older than himself. Seeing my father do this...
Chivalry Isn’t Dead…You Just make it Easy
“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled” Hebrews 13:4 Stop being the hunter/huntress and start being the Mate Before I got married and I was in the dating world. I was so impatience for the gift, my mate that God said according to his word said he had created for me. I would go to church after a bad break up. All torn down and pitiful and I was like ‘God, Here I am… now fix me.’ He would do just that, then he would send his word to me that he had someone for me, that I would get married and...
HBCU-My Different World
Just the opinion of an HBCU grad. Growing up watching TV shows such as the Cosby’s, Martin, Living Single, The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, and my all-time favorite a Different World. I never really notice the subliminal messages of the actors wearing their HBCU paraphernalia until I went to one and would watch the reruns of the shows. Being a little black girl in South Central Los Angeles growing up during the Los Angeles riots and knowing that there were certain areas that you shouldn’t drive through because of gang activity was very alarming. The thing that stayed consistent was that I was able to come home and get lost...
Love a Foreign term 5
You want your value to go to God, you want to know how much you’re worth. God’s word will tell you. Your worth so much to you that God loved you enough to let his only son Jesus pay the price for our sins. Forgive yourself for your past. It’s just that YOU’RE PAST. Stop being a hoarder collecting and holding on to trash from past failed relationship. Another person’s trash might just be that trash until you learn to give it to God and let him have his way in your life. I bet you if you let go and Let God you don’t have to be with any...
Love a Foreign term Part 4
The thing is that some of us are so ready to jump into a relationship because we crave it like sugar or bread. We bring all of our issues and we take on their issues and we make an over weighted situation. We get with people that don’t know how to love or how to receive it. Love is a foreign term to them. They have a conflict in themselves because they love feels well but then they never had a pure love they reject it and therefore reject the relationship. God knows your value. He doesn’t need help to heal you if you give it all to him. I...