Dating while celibate can be a hard thing to image if you enjoy having sex. Now, these are just some of the things I did when I would date celibate. I had a clean slate as a celibate woman. I deleted all my temptation devices. But that doesn’t mean I wasn’t sometimes lonely or in needed of a good meal and some good male company. It felt like once I was committed to being celibate, all types of men came out the wood work. I was doing my best to shut it down. Being upfront about being celibate and the reason why I was now celibate made it easy and hard...
How I Dating While Celibate
How to stay Celibate
When I was dating, getting to know that man. I wanted a relationship. I realize that the man that approach me only wants to have sex with me. Lying to myself that the guy had good intentions and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. I knew when the guy approach me that his lust was for my body and not my mind and love as well. I knew the guy wasn’t the one for me. Still, I indulged in the motion of creating a halfhearted relationship for it to end the same way it started. So after recognizing my need to cleanse my spirit, mind, and...
Why I became Celibate
2009 I become celibate for a host of reasons: I felt that the man that God had for me couldn’t find me because I was to focus on sex. I had enough sex out of wedlock. I was tired of feeling guilty about sex. I was tired of men coming at me in a sexual manner. So I decide to sacrifice sex and surrender all to God. Before 2009, I tried several times to become celibate. To wait for who God had for me to marry. But my mind was not made up to surrender all to God and let him have the control. Each time I tried, I failed....
Sex Before Marriage: Why I wish I waited
“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” Hebrews 13:4 How many of us have heard that we should wait until marriage to have sex? How many of us have to keep hold off waiting? How many of us have let our curiosity take hold of us to seeing what sex was all about? Well, put your hands down because this is not about “slut” shaming anyone. This is about ownership and your relationship between you and God. I can point out all the Bible verses and go old school sister in the front pew...
Can I Meet My Husband online?
I know you want to know can you find your husband online. The truth is you can. But you also have to be safe about it. I have both experiences with different dating style. Online dating is just like online shopping. You can visit the site as much as you like. Read the stats not have to worry about people judging you for linger too long on the individual’s page. Before pulling the trigger of reaching out to them. In person dating it can be just as risky. But you get to see a sample. You get the live version. You can be led by lust, or you can be...