Waiting for your earthly husband Singer Fantasia did an interview with MadameNorie title “Fantasia Talks Power of Spiritual Fasting & Getting Husband Back” during the interview Fantasia talks about the calling God has on her life, how she is honoring the call the way she feels the Lord is leading her. She also talks about how she fasted and prayed seven months before meeting and marrying her husband. Before hearing her testimony, I thought I was alone in my thoughts about dating God while waiting for my earthly husband. Is there such a thing as Dating God? There is because it’s called Marriage. Isaiah 54:5 says “For your Maker is...
Is there such a thing as Dating God?

How to Submit to God

The Lord extends the same invitation: “I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me” (Revelation 3:20). In 2009, I finally gave my life back over to God. I was 25 years old. For years God told me to trust him. Try him. Have faith in him. I thought that I knew best for myself. I wanted to have fun. To me God wasn’t fun, he was fire and brim stone. I wanted no parts of that lifestyle. After a night where the LAPD was involved, I...
How Should I set my Dating Expectations?

Not everyone knows that when dating that they should set dating expectations. I feel when you know that your endgame is to become a wife then you should start setting dating expectations to help guide you while you are waiting for God to send you the husband he has for you. These are the things I did for myself when I was ready to be serious to wait on God to send me my husband. I became real with myself and the standards I was willing and ready to receive. Setting Realistic Dating Standards Establishing realistic standards I needed to ask myself the tough questions. The questions you see here...
Date Yourself while waiting on God

“You are never left alone when you are alone with God.” Woodrow Kroll When I turned my life over to God, trusting that he had me. I gave up dating for a while. I wanted God to know that I was serious about him blessing me with my husband, so I made a committed to him, and myself. I knew in my heart that God was going to bring me my husband, so I felt no need to go out chasing men that weren’t going to put a ring on my finger. Dating myself became a process because I so used to getting dress and going out with the intent...
How you Know You’re a Good Girlfriend

The bible does a great job of explaining how to be a great wife and the roles that women and men should play when they are married. But the Bible says nothing about boyfriend or girlfriend relationships. The only relationship that comes close to some dating was when Jacob fell in love with Rachel the first moment he saw her. The only thing she did to win his heart was walking with her Sheep, being about her father’s business. Jacob from the start knew she was a good woman. 14 years working for her father for her hand in marriage, literally a sister-wife, they were married. Thank God that you...